Cyber-Bullying

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Finished watching a show on cyber bullying& i felt really disturbed. No doubt, female and male bullies are everywhr, bt with technology nowadays, it has given them an additional platform to show themselves. Fake identities may be created online; insults and awful languages are used on innocent peoples. Some may start off with people they have held grudges against for quite awhile while some may start off with just a joke.

Many bullies find it 'unreal' as they hide behind their screen and bully people with their words. They've never thought of what the consequences would be like. But truth is, every hurtful thing that is sent out by them affects one's self esteem and prolly even their life. Victims who are cyber-bullied often stay silent about it and would constantly felt that they are driven to the corner; like there's no escape for them. Whats most hurtful is that such pain follows them back home. People always overlook such problems; severe cyber bullying can cause anxiety, depression and even suicidal thoughts. See how serious it is?:/

But what have they done to deserve such treatment?

To all victims of cyber bullying out there, don't be afraid! you can prolly start off by sharing your encounters with your parents or maybe someone you're comfortable with. it is always the first step that are hard to take. Don't entertain the bullies by calling them names because that makes u the bully as well. there are many ways that one can take action on, e.g. printing out the evidence of cyber bullying and reporting it or to just block the contact etc. Know that there are support groups out there which would be glad to be of help, or approach a counselor if needed(: Rmb, it is important to share it with someone you're comfortable with, dun go thru it alone. Friends and family are always there to support u emotionally, physically and mentally(:

So.. how can we play our part? Well, simple! Be thankful for the technology we have; iphone, blackberry, macbook etc, its a privilege for us and lets not misuse it(: hee:D

Till then(: